Feb 07 2009
Rough week
My father in law has been ill, so we’ve been spending a lot of time at the hospital visiting him. Which would not be any problem if my mother in law hadn’t decided to move into our house without asking us. Well, actually she only says that it’s my husband’s house. She won’t actually acknowledge that I may have had some role in choosing and purchasing the house. She and I do not get along at all, so this whole situation is very uncomfortable. Right now I’m sitting and waiting for her to come back to my house with my husband. What a week. Ugh!
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(((hugs)))
Sounds like more than a rough week . . .
What about your husband? Can he gently express a desire for unity and suggest she move back home to keep the peace?
She sounds like a very inconsiderate woman . . .
Hang in there . . . you need to find a place around your house that is comfortable for you where you can be alone . . . your comfort zone.
You and your husband are one person in unity - tell him how you feel. We all have a right to our feelings and through those feelings and talking to your husband you should be able to confront your mother in law and find a solution that will benefit you all.
The last thing you need to do is become depressed and miserable.
How are you doing?
Oh my. Hopefully, as suggested, you’ve talked with your husband about this and he’s intervened. I hope things are going better for you.
Roxie
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